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How to be a Dom: Orders and Rules

One of the most common topics dominant men want to talk to me about are the rules for their submissive, more specifically what rules to create, what rules to avoid, and how to enforce them. The entire concept of the D/s dynamic is a relationship built around a...

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An Introduction to BDSM: How to be a Dom

It’s possible to enjoy your kinks in a way which not only makes you a gentleman, but makes you more desirable to women.

Everyone has their own kinks, fetishes, fantasies, and desires. The degree in which you push these is the main thing which separates the freaks from the vanilla. The first step in all of this is to accept the kinks you have and begin to be honest and mature about them. If you are unable to have an open discussion about your fetishes, it’s almost certain you are not capable of exploring them safely.

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